I realized today that he and I are just in two different stages of our lives. He has trust issues and isn't ready to be serious with anyone. And I totally understand that because when we started seeing each other, I wasn't ready to be serious either.
But now I am. I'm ready to move forward with our relationship, but he's still not. So that leads me to having some certain concerns.
The first is that if I stay with him, how long would it be before he's ready to be serious? How long would I have to wait? How long would I be happy waiting?
The second is that, if I stay, and I wait for him to be ready to move forward, what happens if he decided he's ready to move forward and be serious, but he doesn't want that with me? Then I've wasted all this time waiting around for someone who doesn't even want me.
Those are my two biggest concerns about staying with him right now.
Yeah, I'm happy and I'm okay with how things are for right now, but I know eventually I'll get restless and tired of waiting for him to take the next step.
Do I stay or do I go?
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